Paula Hitler: Being Hitler’s sister.

Hitler’s Sister

Hitler was famously a private man and it remains the case today that we don’t know a huge deal of what he was like behind closed doors. Granted, we do get an idea of his character through other people’s experiences and retelling of certain events – They mainly portray an angry, loud, erratic, incoherent, paranoid and formidable person but it is fair to say that is an obvious and unsurprising answer from those who were interviewed in the post-war years following Hitler’s death, given the circumstances. There is certainly evidence that proves Hitler was all the abhorrent qualities above but was there another softer side to him? A likely place to find this ‘other side’ would his relationship with his only direct family member who saw his ascension to becoming one of the most powerful men in the world, his younger sister Paula.

Delving into the life of Paula Hitler tantalises us with the prospect of a totally unique viewpoint and knowledge on the Fuhrer. Perhaps it will portray a side rarely told in the history book and movies. After reading around the topic for this post, I think there certainly some truth to this.

Hitler’s family

To explore these questions and more, it is first necessary to look at the Hitler family and Adolf and Paula’s upbringing to provide context. Family life in the Hitler household was often turbulent and marred by numerous deaths of father Alois and mother Klara’s children. Of their six children, 3 – Gustav, Ida, and Otto – died in infancy. Of the three children that lived past infancy, Hitler was the eldest and had a younger brother called Edmund who born in 1984 and a younger sister, Paula, born 1896. Edmund died of measles in 1900 when Hitler was 11 years old. This was said to deeply affect Adolf and it could be argued that it was around this age when family tensions arise, especially between him and his father. Alois Hitler had forged himself a successful career in the customs bureau and was adamant his son should do the same. It is well known that Hitler had a strong desire to become an artist, so when he was denied the chance to go to a classical school to study art and instead sent to a technical school in Linz this upset him deeply. In Mein Kampf Hitler said he purposefully rebelled and performed badly in school in the hope that he would get pulled out and sent down his preferred path of becoming an artist. Writing in his book Hitler hoped that after his father saw “what little progress I was making at the technical school he would let me devote myself to my dream”[1]. After his father’s death in 1903 his performance in school dropped yet again and his mother allowed him to leave the school.

Hitler’s childhood

It has often been said that Hitler himself was a sickly child and given the rocky relationship with his father he naturally gravitated towards his mother and when he did eventually drop out of the technical school in Linz it was only because of his mother that he stayed around. When she fell ill in 1907 Adolf cared for her right up until her death in that same year. After this he left home and sister Paula would not see him again for 13 years between 1908 – 1921, she saying: “I have no idea what he did at this time. I did not know if he was still alive.” Before leaving, he did sign over his orphans pension over to Paula as he was old enough to support himself. Here we have what could be construed as an act of compassion, maybe even brotherly love. Ultimately, though, this act of kindness is undermined by him totally abandoning her.

An interview with Paula Hitler can be found on youtube

I have found the most useful sources of information for Paula Hitler and her relationship with her brother to be her interrogations and interviews after the war. These provide the best insight into growing up with the future Fuhrer. Paula says that she didn’t spend that much time with her brother due to their age gap of 7 years and Hitler never considered her a ‘playmate’. He did, however, play a leading role amongst his friends, of which she says he had many. He would take charge in their activities, his favourite game being cops and robbers (one can’t help but wonder which side he preferred playing on). She recalled that he was always coming home too late in the evening; “He got a spanking every night for not coming home on time”[2] On the surface this would appear to be an unremarkable comment, but a continued defiance of the rules and lack of consideration and ineffectiveness of punishments indicate a problem with authority and following rules from a young age. This is backed up by his later rebelliousness and lousy school record.

On Paula and Adolf’s reunion in 1921, Paula certainly demonstrates an air of resentment towards her brother on his random arrival at her place of work in a Jewish university dormitory; “I told him that it would have been much easier for me if I had a brother”. At this he appears to become defensive stating: “I had nothing myself. How could I have helped you? I did not let you know about myself because I could not have helped you.”[3] The case remains that after a 13 year absence Hitler did decide rekindle a relationship with his abandoned sister. The reason could be down to a sense of duty towards his only direct family member or maybe even something more sympathetic. The latter may be the case as Paula recalls it was like “he had fallen from heaven… He was very charming at the time. What made the biggest impression on me was the fact that he went shopping with me. Every woman loves to shop.” This surely indicates that there was a level of compassion and kindness felt by Hitler towards his sister. He could have easily just left his sister to fend for herself like she had had to do for the 13 years prior.

Many people put Hitler’s rejection from the Academy to study art as the straw that broke the camel’s back and turned Hitler towards right-wing and fascist activities. On his rejection from the Academy in Vienna they said there was “an unfitness for painting”[4]. According to his sister, in school he was very good in some subjects, very bad at others, and lacked any outstanding academic prowess in any. His poorest was maths and physics which could explain why he was unable to get on an architecture course like was recommended to him when getting rejected from the Academy. He also expressed an interest in studying architecture himself.

From 1929, Paula would only see and receive a letter from her brother once a year and the letters were often short and lacked any real sentiment, her saying that he had little family sense – something which he picked up from their father. No matter how little involved he was with her, being Hitler’s sister still negatively impacted Paula’s life. In 1930 Paula lost her job in a Viennese insurance company when it was discovered who her brother was. After this, Hitler would provide her with a monthly pension of 250 schillings and after the Anschluss (annexation of Austria by Germany) her pension changed to 500 marks a month.

Six years later, during the 1936 winter Olympic games, Hitler told Paula to change her name and remain in the strictest of incognito and so she became Mrs Paula Wolff, choosing the title of ‘Mrs’ because to her it seemed more inconspicuous. She excelled in keeping her identity a secret, so much so that when she travelled to Berlin in 1940 to see her brother the SS didn’t even know who she was. In 1945 she was told to flee to Berchtesgaden for fears of her life. On being told she had to leave in 2 hours she said that it was not possible due to her vegetable garden and that they would have to wait until the next morning. This gives the impression that she tried to keep herself at a distance from what was going on around in the world by not knowing the severity of her position as Hitler’s sister. ‘Ignorance is bliss’ and she could well have buried her head in the sand – after the war she was a holocaust denier.

In an interview with US Intelligence when the subject moved to her brother’s suicide Paula broke down in tears, saying that Hitler’s death affected her very much; “He was still my brother, no matter what happened. His end brought unspeakable sorrow to me, his sister.”[5] This last quote sums up Paula and her brother’s relationship well. They were never admittedly close, never ‘playmates’ and they were apart for most of their lives yet Hitler did choose to remain in contact with his younger sister and provided for her both when he had very little and when he was in a position of power. His motives to this end will never truly be known and we can speculate on whether it was a moral sense of duty or whether it was out of love, but what is known is that he had a choice and he chose to care for her sister. As for Paula, one gets the impression that she chose to keep herself at a distance from what was going on around her, for fear that it would be known who her brother was but also maybe because she knew that her brother was trouble. She once said in an interview “I must honestly confess that I would have preferred it if he had followed his original ambition and became an architect… It would have saved the world a lot of worries”. The understatement of the century perhaps?



[1] Hitler, Adolf (1999) [1925]. Mein Kampf. Page 10.



[4] Bullock, Alan (1962) [1952]. Hitler: A Study in Tyranny. London: Penguin Books. Page 30-31.


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